Dexter Leave Me in This Cage Again

How-do-you-do everyone.
I'yard very new here and already amazed by the help and back up y'all guys offer to each other. I hope I can go some advice from you.
So my very first interaction with cats began virtually vii months ago when nosotros moved to our current house. Back then I found out that iii cute female kittens around 3 months old were hanging around our backyard with their mother. I started feeding them every once in a while, and after about two weeks the mother cat decided to leave them behind and just disappeared!
It took a lot of endeavor to get them to trust me. At beginning I had to leave the nutrient in the g, they would come and eat only if no 1 was effectually. and then they started getting used to having me around while eating. I prepared a wooden box for them and filled information technology with bedding and everything and they simply loved it. they used to hang out there most of the day and look for the meal times. Merely however they wouldn't allow me touch them.
But as cruel equally nature is, they went into estrus i after another and the strange beliefs began. I decided to spay them (Information technology was my very offset time with cats and I didn't know anything near these stuff beforehand) and I even bought baskets and called for an date and everything, but my female parent all of a sudden got ill and hospitalized for over 3 weeks. My dad has passed away and my sister is at work until very tardily so I had to be with my mom. I used to travel between dwelling house and hospital 2 to iii times a day in order to feed them (I could not and still can't get out food outside. Tom cats are really wild in our neighborhood). And then I judge you tin imagine how they all got pregnant. They would just come for food, and they became super edgy and scared of me. They even got apart from each other and fought all the fourth dimension.
One of them though, my sweet and kind phoebe, was and then affectionate towards me. She would hang out in the chiliad all twenty-four hour period, waiting for me to go and pet her. we got pretty close. I so wanted to get her fixed but her belly was then big I was afraid if I accept her to the vet they wouldn't spay her and she wouldn't trust me anymore.
She had her babies 6 weeks ago, so suddenly her sis lily decided to come and take her babies in the same box! and phoebe let her in generously. They would take intendance of kittens and nurse them together. Some died (or got eaten by Toms I guess) and 2 of them remained. I noticed her going into estrus once again, but I waited for the kittens to get older.
This very wednesday, I finally gathered my courage, put her in the handbasket and took her to the vet. Man that was i heartbreaking feel. She was SO scared only she got spayed, got all necessary shots, and they said 1 of her teeth was infected so they pulled information technology out and prescribed anti-biotics for five days. They also said that she has to be in a clean, indoor space. Well as lucky as I am, my mom has been against this whole thing and gave me a REALLY hard time so there was no mode I could keep her at my house. They suggested to hospitalize her and I had no other option. She was and then nervous and managed to accept off the neckband and bandages and refused to eat so they had to give her serum. I visited her yesterday, and just couldn't assist crying seeing her all petrified... I stayed with her for about iii hours, pet her, hug her, kissed her over and over again and gave her recovery food piddling by little with my own easily (she wouldn't eat from the bowl). She fell asleep with her head on my hand and got a picayune calmer but every time a doctor walked by she merely freaked out.
Meanwhile, lily decided to accept the kittens somewhere else and I don't know where they are gone.
Now my business concern is 2-fold!
Do y'all remember she volition ever trust me again after this trauma? I mean the twenty-four hour period I bring her back and set her gratuitous, is it possible that she walks away and never returns??? and will she go where the kittens are? considering they are moved, volition she remember them?
Do you have whatever advice, on how to treat her or how to gain her trust back? I'chiliad totally losing it. She probably thinks I have abased her and I don't know what to do!
Sorry it got too long and cheers in advance.

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